Wrinkle Cream Question :
I have smile lines and lines all around my eyes when I smile. I can almost accept them for what they are, but I will never forget when my ex told me I should start using anti wrinkle cream or something around my eyes because she said I’m too young to have them and that I should not have these lines. I can never accept myself because of what she said. Any thoughts?
I have smile lines and lines all around my eyes when I smile. I can almost accept them for what they are, but I will never forget when my ex told me I should start using anti wrinkle cream or something around my eyes because she said I’m too young to have them and that I should not have these lines. I can never accept myself because of what she said. Any thoughts?
19 responses so far ↓
1 azn_phat_boi281 // Oct 3, 2008 at 10:07 am
stop being a little wuss thats what.
real men don’t use wrinkle cream wth
2 Richard C // Oct 5, 2008 at 10:26 pm
Don’t worry too much about it “man”….
3 Julia B // Oct 9, 2008 at 9:04 am
That was an awful thing for her to say. Having laugh lines or smile lines is a good thing! It means your a nice person with a good sense of humor! And anyway, it shouldn’t matter how you look.
4 sarahjayne,x // Oct 12, 2008 at 5:00 am
thats very shallow of her. everyone has imperfections, and day in day out we have to live with them. you should not be concerned about this at all! Many people have lines when they smile, i do!
you’re fine.
5 douchepipe // Oct 15, 2008 at 3:44 am
dude let it go.
6 ♥**•.¸¸verbalkint♥**•.¸¸ // Oct 18, 2008 at 3:33 pm
im 49 and every line tells a story of a chapter in my life, i wouldnt change them for the world they make me who i am, i like what i see in the mirror in the morning,
7 Cookies! // Oct 20, 2008 at 5:06 pm
Yeah, words can hurt. It’s alright- everyone gets those little lines and it’s nothing to fret over. There are many products out there that will help if you feel like you have to do something about it.
8 Sufi // Oct 22, 2008 at 5:56 am
you need to get busy doing work on accepting yourself. maybe buddhism would help. self acceptance is an important basis to any relationship. i know this is important to you, but you need to do the personal work to recover. try journaling, getting in touch with your inner feelings. yoga or aikido.
9 thedavecorp // Oct 23, 2008 at 10:38 pm
So get some F—— cream. What’s the big deal? Get some botox, or whatever.
People get old, that’s the way it is. There are fat people that everybody loves, and ugly people who get all the girls – a few wrinkles are nothing.
And consider that she may have said that just to hurt you and make you paranoid, or to bring you down a notch because she was jealous or not confident around you, or wanted to ruin you for others – girls (and guys too) can be like that.
10 blue skies // Oct 27, 2008 at 2:39 am
She’s an idiot. Consider the source. Don’t let the distorted thoughts of others consume you.
11 Lily // Oct 29, 2008 at 5:20 pm
And she was perfect? Do you judge people by their wrinkles?
12 frank s // Nov 1, 2008 at 2:45 pm
“and you are too young for saggy ******* and that big butt”.
problem solved.
men dont use wrinkle cream.
at least i assume your girlfriend was a girl.
13 Meep // Nov 1, 2008 at 3:18 pm
everyone has those.
14 ladybug_jane22 // Nov 4, 2008 at 4:31 pm
I think you are okay the way you are. If it really bothers you though, they’re are wrinkle creams and such to try out. I’m not sure what the best one is since I am out shopping around for one myself.
15 Rnd // Nov 6, 2008 at 9:36 pm
I think that those lines around a guy’s eyes when he smiles or laughs are cute. And it shows that he smiles and laughs a lot, which is a good thing.
But then again, I’m not about dating the whole “pristine canvas” sort of guys, I like to date actual people.
16 Warm Breeze // Nov 7, 2008 at 12:20 pm
That was only her opinion and there could have been any kind of motive behind it. Who knows, in a different time/place she might have said that’s what she loved most about you. Lines are not a bad thing. Lines are natural. Lines are cool. You can accept yourself how you are. It doesn’t matter.
17 truly // Nov 10, 2008 at 5:35 pm
Get over it. You have smile lines that indicate all of the laughter and joy you have had in your life. Don’t let some silly thoughtless commit change how you feel about yourself. Your worth and beauty are based on how you act not how many lines are on your face.
18 Yes we can! // Nov 12, 2008 at 9:31 am
If this is what haunts you then you’re going to be spooked when your hairline starts receding. If it bothers you so much do something about. Buy wrinkle cream or consult a plastic surgeon. Don’t whine about it.
19 <3 Mrs.Lil' WaYnE<3 // Nov 12, 2008 at 8:39 pm
she was trying to be honest….dnt sweat it.. iok
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